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"I'll find Love when the time is right..." Stop Lying to Yourself!



If you know us, then you know that our absolute passion is helping people find Love.


Nothing gets us more excited and no conversation is more interesting to us than what is going to help you end your cycles of being alone to finally create your Epic Love Story.


This is also the reason that nothing is more frustrating to us than hearing the lies that people tell themselves--all the reasons you say you can't have the Love you deeply desire.


If you've had the opportunity to work with us then you know that we're very quick to call BS when we hear lies about why it can't happen, shouldn't happen, or it's not the right time.


The journey to find Love is a transformational process. Perpetual loneliness and endless dating are the results of a way of life that a person has adopted. It's a habit and a LIFESTYLE, something that must be transformed if you want to find Love.


Most people who don't find Love within their first 40 years of life (and those who found it and lost it) become so accustomed to a way of life that promotes their being alone that finding Love begins to feel impossible, overwhelming, frustrating, and a waste of time.


This is when you begin to say things like, "Maybe it's just not the right time," or "It will happen when I'm ready," or "I have too much going on to think about that right now."


You say this because you don't want to let on how much Love really matters to you and how badly you really want it. You think that telling these stories to yourself and others will somehow make it ok that you haven't found what you're looking for.


But every day that you tell yourself these stories, you doubt more and more that it will ever happen. You become more comfortable in your lonely lifestyle and the idea of actually finding Love starts to feel impossible.


Every day that goes by like this you feel less worthy, less attractive, and further solidify your belief in the reasons why it can't happen.


But all of these reasons are lies.


In this post, we're calling out the lies that you're telling yourself and exposing them for what they are! This is the most important thing you can ever do for yourself if you actually want to find Love in your lifetime.



#1 "Maybe now just isn't the right time."


Now is the only time you have!


If it's not happening now, you've missed your chance.


If you imagine that at some perfect time in the future you'll suddenly be inspired to date, be surrounded by great people, and be more attractive than ever, to put it bluntly-- you are not living in reality. In fact, the longer you procrastinate, the less you will experience these things.


You might say, "I want it to happen now but I can't just go out and meet the right person because I want to." We understand that, but here's what you can do:


You can be completely intentional that you will meet the right person, so connected to this idea that you feel it in your bones, and be taking some kind of action towards meeting that person every single day.


If this is not how you feel when you consider the idea of finding Love, you are lightyears away from it actually happening. Thinking that you can go day after day without placing any thought, intention, or action towards finding Love and that at some point it will just "work out" is entirely unrealistic.


It works out because you want it to, because it's so important to you that you are willing to make real effort towards it, and because you Love yourself enough to not deprive yourself of it for the sake of your own comfort.


We aren't saying that this moment is the moment to meet "the one", although it's as possible as any other. We're saying that NOW is the time to be connected to the idea of what you want. NOW is the time to believe that it will happen and is happening for you. And NOW is the only time you can ever DO anything about it.


If it's not happening now, your life will pass you by and you will quickly realize that you have run out of time.