Secret #1: Don't worry about if they like you. Instead, just honestly consider your true feelings for them.
“I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe
1. Have I ever allowed my fear of losing someone to prevent me from trusting what I knew was right in my heart? What happened?
2. Have I sacrificed things that were truly important to me or tolerated less than I deserved to keep someone around? How did that feel? Was it worth it?
3. What is it that I truly desire in a Loving committed partnership? How will I know that someone has real potential for that? What are my Green Flags?