Secret #2: Rejection is not as personal as it feels. Liking someone or being liked has more to do with compatibility than it does worthiness.
“I don't want anyone who doesn't want me.”
― Oprah Winfrey
1. Do I struggle with rejection? What is it about rejection that bothers me so much? Has my fear of rejection prevented me from getting what I wanted before?
2. Can I accept that people will sometimes not want a relationship with me and give them the freedom to make that choice without being upset about it? If not, why not?
3. Can I see that if someone is unwilling or unable to create the kind of relationship I'm looking for together, they couldn't possibly be the one I'm looking for? Your freedom lies in truly understanding this.