What Doesn't Break the Relationship, Rescues It

You've surely heard the saying, "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger." This is an incredibly accurate statement, especially when it comes to relationships. We often find that couples, whether they are newly together or have been together for some time, tend towards trying to avoid the conversations and confrontations that challenge their ideas about the relationship and cause them discomfort. It's not surprising, really. In general, people tend to relate to the things that are challenging as being "bad" and things that are easy as being "good&q