If you've ever been into someone who didn't feel the same in return then you know what it feels like to ask this question:
"What do I have to do to get him to want me?"
When you can see so clearly how perfect you would be together, it's maddening that he can't see it too.
It can be especially painful when you've invested a lot of time and energy with someone just to have them finally reveal that they don't see things the same way and that they thought you knew how they felt.
It's times like these that if you only knew how to make someone fall in Love with you things would be so much easier. In this week's post, we're sharing some of the secrets we've found to do just that.
Before we jump into it, we want to let you know that it's probably not what you think it is.
It has nothing to do with being sexier, skinnier, or even smarter.
In fact, if you do well what we're suggesting in this post, a man will likely choose you even over someone he may find to be objectively more "attractive".
So read on. We're going to share the 3 things that are most likely to make a man fall in Love with you. Enjoy the read!
#1 Believe In and Support Him
One of the biggest suggestions we make to anyone seeking a relationship with a man is to find someone who is up to something in his life.
This doesn't necessarily mean a career, although it often can, but find a man who has goals, dreams, and ambitions. This is a strong sign of someone who Loves himself and therefore is in a place in life where he is ready to Love someone else.
When you meet a man who has goals, dreams, and ambitions, and you truly believe in him, he starts to feel invincible. He feels like he can accomplish anything.
Don't underestimate the power of supporting him in the things that matter most to him. It will touch his heart in a way that almost nothing else can.
When you do this, you become a part of his team. He starts to associate you as an integral part of his life so he can't imagine continuing the journey without you.
In those moments when he's struggling and doesn't think he can complete the task, yours will be the voice that reminds him of who he is and what he can do and he will appreciate you for it.
A powerful man knows that he needs a partner. He knows that he can't thrive on this journey alone. But he can also feel when someone isn't up to the task or doesn't believe in him and that will prevent him from falling in Love.
We can't stress enough that for this to work, it's important to find someone who has powerful dreams and ambitions and that you truly align with them. It will be an ordeal trying to believe in someone who doesn't believe in himself and you can't truly support something that you're not really aligned with.
When you meet that person that is going somewhere and you know that it's a journey you want to go on with him, believe in him, encourage him, and become an essential part of his team. He'll also become an essential part of yours.
#2 Challenge Him
Men don't want it to come easy. Boys do.