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How to Create a Powerful Relationship with Online Dating



The number one statement we hear about online dating is how much people hate it. We know how frustrating it is to be looking for Love in an environment where people seem to want everything but then you receive unwanted or inappropriate messages and you end up sorting through literally hundreds of people without finding a single real connection.


And then you hear us say:


"If you hate online dating, you're not using it properly."


That's annoying, we know, so we thought we would share some of our ideas on the subject to help you understand what we mean when we say "using it properly."


Online dating is an incredible tool! You literally have access to connecting with thousands of people from the comfort of your own home. Technology is so incredible that you can even have a first date with someone without ever having to meet them in person.


But online dating is still dating, the good and the bad. Even more, it's a concentrated dating environment so we understand why you hate it. All the things you hate about dating are right there in your living room and you are forced to confront them. So if you've always done your best to avoid those feelings and experiences it will be miserable.


Still, in today's world and especially during a pandemic, online dating is such a powerful resource that if you don't choose to leverage it, you're missing out. Before you write it off completely, explore how you can adjust your relationship to it. Once you do that, you may find that you feel very differently about it and it may even become an amazing resource for you.


Read on, we're going to be telling you all about it. Here are a few powerful ways to completely shift your experience with online dating.





First, Have an Amazing Profile


We know you're not a basic person, but does your profile demonstrate that? It's a powerful point to consider.


Of course, there are people out there with no sense, but if you receive a lot of unwanted attention, there must be something in your profile that makes people think you might respond to that.


Ask yourself, "Does my profile communicate how amazing I really am? Is it a good representation of how brilliant, beautiful, and fun I am?" Your profile should make you look so stunning that mediocre people don't even try. They assume you are out of their league.


A few tips to consider when it comes to your pics:


Your pictures should make you look awesome. Basic pictures make you look like a basic person.


NO SELFIES! ESPECIALLY IN THE MIRROR! You look like everyone else who has nothing better going on than to stand in the bathroom and take pictures of themselves.


And no duck lips! Try smiling instead.


Your pictures can be sexy but if that's all they are people will simply see you as a sex object. Find pictures that demonstrate your intelligence, your accomplishments, your interests, and your adventurous spirit. Get a few candid active photos, photos with cool friends, fun times spent with family members you love to be around, and maybe even do a photoshoot with a photographer to make sure you look your best.


In your description say something elevated and intelligent so dull people don't try to talk to you. Make it clear that you're only interested in speaking with someone who is looking for True Love and anyone else shouldn't bother reaching out.


Don't try to say something that others will like you for. Again, that just makes you look like everyone else. Say something that shows your unique personality. Say something that the man or woman of your dreams would read and think, "WOW, I have to talk to this person."


Your profile should make you stand out way above 90% of the others on the app. The great thing about this is that you can cu